What Defines A Person

What defines a person

Thursday, April 22, 2021
8:43 PM

I’ve been wanting to write this all day long, since that 2:00 a.m. this morning. I decided to go out at elaborate now I was going to make some surveys and do all kinds of stuff but you know what I believe right now I just want to say my peace.

What defines a person?

Well, that question I guess would be answered depending on who you asked. Some would say money, family, cars, looks. Etc.

What defines a person’s worth? Wow that one is a doozy there. Because the majority if you’re asking this question in the population of sex work. That answer would be, “once a heaux, always a beaux.” Or the other famous one would be
“Can’t make a housewife out of a heaux.”

In which neither of these sentences are actually true in my case. Being that I was a housewife long before heaux, two times matter of fact. And in all reality, in my case, it was actually the slut in me that brought me to be in a heaux. So again I remind all of you….IM LIKE NO OTHER!

So what defines a person? what define their worth?

What is it that to you makes a person Worthy. .

So whether you’re a man in this community or a civie out in the world… a prostitute or an escort or a companion or a provider or whatever you want to call it… Seems like what we do our job seems to define us in the eyes of all of you. It seems like it defines our worth in the eyes of all of you.

But I’ve got some questions to ask because I’m very curious.

So does your job define you does your job define your worth? I’m really trying to understand this so-called logic here that to me is just not logical at all.

So the distaste that comes from any person when they hear somebody’s in sex work they don’t matter if it’s cashier or whatever but just the word itself that distaste from it. Once heard, it’s automatically stripped our worth. GONE IN THAT ONE INSTANT! AND THAT APPARENTLY ALSO DEFINES US AS A PERSON. No good just hated…just literally spat on and told that we no longer have rights because we are an escort.

So I’m really going to ask I love you since this seems to define me as a person and it seems to define my worth. I’m wondering what the fuck did he say about all of you????

Quite frankly said, those of you who go you know haggling prices and treating people like shit and you know being cheap and stingy and just all around bitchy…m when you give me the threatened us and say well I know what you’ve done you’re a sex worker I’ll turn you in.

But hey wait a minute this is what I wonder. How is in any one of you any better when you sleeping in that same bed. Don’t you think you can get in trouble too. Better yet don’t you think we know a little bit more about you also when you pull out these threats. So that means when you come in this community you’re automatically not worth being worried about and fucking around with in the first place. If this is the real case.

As the saying goes, when you sleep in the same bed with the dogs you get up with the same fleas. and where again many of you who don’t even care about your own selves to cover it up you bring those fleas to us when you force us to do bareback or expect us to. So I’m wondering what does that say about you. if this is the real case, I mean.

And I’m not downing anybody I’m really bringing up a real debate here because I I’m not understanding this


Another perfect example that has I personally have been experiencing here lately. Is this excuse about “well you can’t go to the cops.” “This is what I want to know why the hell cant I???” If you’re well educated into what the law states. Escorting is legal going on a date and being paid for companionship and time is legal.

Know that there is a fine line between legal and illegal. See this is why we go about things and we do them a certain way and I make sure that I do everything by book legal. It’s when you ask about how much and all this for services or whatever that makes it illegal so why can’t I go to the cops???

Or is it that you’re just trying to fear monger me???

And I would like to ask you another question. If me being a hoe defines me as a person, then what would you consider customers who call the providers heaux’s, who steal from them in Short change them in whatever else that they do and keep them being a hoe what would that consider them?

Because the way I see it if you are calling a provider a heaux and then you keep her away from trying to get out of being a hoe and keep her down then that would what…???

I’m just wanting to make a point here.