January 2022

January 1st, 2022

Finally, was able to get my first vacation in years, went back home to Baton Rouge for the first time in 10 years. I stayed with a very good friend of mine, Henry Turner Jr, whom I met more than 25 years ago. We met at a bar called Virginia’s, where Wednesday Nights were Reggae night. When he walked in, I was on the dance floor (as usual) dancing Reggae, which I guess totally impressed him that a white girl could dance Reggae. ?

He and his band (Henry Turner Jr and Flavor) has traveled the world playing both Reggae and Blues. He now owns Henry’s Listening Room and Henry Turner Jr’s Listening Room Heritage Museum, along with a TV show as well. Henry is not only a large contributor to the Heritage of Louisiana Blues, he also contributes his time and efforts into upcoming Louisiana Rap and Hip Hop Artists as well.

From the time I got into Baton Rouge on December 30th through my whole stay at Henry’s till the 4th of January, NOT ONCE was I disrespected, NOT ONCE was I disregarded, NOT ONCE was I looked down upon, NOT ONCE was I Talked down to, NOT ONCE was I ignored, NOT ONCE was I humiliated, NOT ONCE was I disgraced….NOT ONCE!!!!!….NOT ONCE WAS I TREATED INHUMANELY, BENEATH, BELOW, OR LESS THAN!!!!

At NO point and time while I was there was I treated in a disrespectful manner. NOT from Henry, NOT from his band, NOT from the customers at his club, NOT EVEN FROM THE HOMELESS CRACKHEADS ASKING FOR MONEY WHILE I WAS OUTSIDE SMOKING AT THE CLUB!!!.…and I rode around in a Black Limo the whole time!!!!

It was a reminder, a reminder of how I’ve been treated before moving to Texas, a reminder that I was always respected before moving to Texas, a reminder of how human beings actually treat another human being with dignity and respect, a reminder of how human beings are actually human beings and NOT animals and monsters!!!

It also reminded me that it was the CALIBER of people that was important!!!

I was able to RELAX, HAVE FUN, DANCE MY ASS OFF LIKE I LOVE TO DO (showing off my dancing skills ?…YESSS, I DO have a lot more skills than just oral that I’m damn good at) and ENJOY myself for the first time in FIVE YEARS!!! I didn’t have to worry about who was stalking me, if anyone was gonna break into my place while sleeping or taking a shower JUST TO GASLIGHT ME!!!!

Now mind you, I was able to take a vacation to celebrate the New Year and my 50th Birthday, JUST A MONTH AND A HALF AFTER MOVING INTO MY OWN APARTMENT, PAID FOR THE TRIP WITH MY OWN MONEY. I was NOT expected to have sex, was NOT forced to have sex…and did NOT give it up…AT ALL!!!…MY CHOICE!!!

You wonder HOW I’ve been able to do all of this WITH ONLY MY OWN MONEY??!!… MEN HAVE NOT BEEN AROUND TO STEAL FROM ME!!!… Which BTW brings me to THIS: The ONLY times in my life that I have been a Sex Worker is when abusive Narcissists were in my life. The first time was when I was going through my Second divorce! And THIS TIME??? I was FORCED BY MEN CONTINUALLY STEALING FROM ME< FORCING ME INTO SEX WORK< MAKING ME A WHORE AND KEEPING ME AS A WHORE, JUST TO CALL ME A WHORE. ESSENTIALLY BEING SEX TRAFFICKERS!!!!!

I have NEVER in my life been treated so INHUMANELY AS I HAVE BEEN TREATED SINCE BEING IN TEXAS! NOT even being abused throughout my life!!

Sitting in Henry’s limo, talking when we got back to his place on New Years, I heard the Ring of COMPLETE Silence in both of my ears!!! It was the THIRD time since March 2019. Two times while being in a car and one time while being in a camper trailer.